I can’t say enough good things about her… Margot Kidder has been a tireless crusader for mental health for many years, once even coming to Seattle at the invite of some local activists in support of a mental health ordinance that might not have been passed if it weren’t for her support. She’s a smart and sassy lady, and she’ll be in town next month. Here’s hoping she’ll say yes to an interview. Stay tuned! Here’s a nice little bio.
Update: So I back and forthed with her rep, and then things went where I didn’t think they would. I was pretty sure something fishy was going on when he right away went from nay to yea on me when I mentioned possibly paying for an interview. I thought it was kind of absurd that she would want money for a cause so seemingly near and dear to her. Honestly, I thought he didn’t forward my note to her at all, and all sorts of semi-paranoid thoughts went through my head, so I figured I would go to the Crypticon in Everett, talk to her in person, and get to the bottom of things.
So I did, and I walk in, and what do you know, her rep is sitting right there next to her. “Shit, what do I do now?” I walked around and around the site (which was a zombie/horror fest, the main part of which was held in the appropriately creepy garage of the Everett Hilton), perusing the human skull replicas, latex masks (and full-size latex creatures), and comic artists; also horror film celebs signing autographs and taking pictures with fans– like Ernie Hudson (the black Ghostbuster, who seemed like a really friendly, down-to-earth guy), Kane Hodder (the guy behind Jason’s hockey mask), Amanda Wyss (you’ve seen her in Fast Times At Ridgemont High, Nightmare on Elm Street, Better Off Dead, The Highlander tv series, etc.), and a few others.
Anyhow, so I’m circling, circling, waiting for a chance to maybe swoop in and talk to her while her rep is on a bathroom break, reveal the whole ‘cash for time’ scam he was trying to pull, and we would bond over our mutual… whatever.
God, I’m really shortsighted sometimes.
I come around to her table once again, and realize she’s not there. Then I remember she’s going to be doing an interview in the conference room upstairs momentarily, so I rush off to find the way up to the main halls. Some kid in a hastily-applied ghoul getup tells me if I just go up these stairs here, I’ll be out front of the building and can just go back in the main entrance. At the top of the stairs, another junior ghoul who’d snuck up behind me asks if I have a VIP pass or not, and I turn around to show him my measly day-pass wrist bracelet.
When I turn back around, Margot comes walking around the corner, walking a dog (was it hers? Did she not have the heart to leave her ol’ buddy at home? Did some fan get her to walk their dog while they snapped a pic? I dunno.). So I say
“Hey Margot, I’ve been emailing **, did I see him downstairs?”, just to make sure it was him.
“Yep,” she says, distracted, as would be anyone in a place like that, about to go onstage– and walking a dog– with 20 people coming up to you and asking you questions all at once.
“Well I’m Dan, the guy doing the mental health documentary… I just thought I’d come down and say hi since I live nearby.”
She stops for a momentary storm calm, makes eye contact, sizes me up… recognition. “Oh yeah…” She smiles. “Nice to meet you,” and shakes my hand. I return the sentiment, and then she’s off.
It only occurred to me a minute later that, in large part, this is these people’s jobs. They are there to please the fans, sure, but… this is how they bring home the bacon. I sure as hell wouldn’t be going around cleaning windows for free for every other random person that asked. I don’t know what I was thinking.
Now I look back on her rep and her, sitting there, doing their jobs, just like normal people, like the rest of us do our jobs. How did I possibly think they were trying to get away with something? Like they owed me something? Like what I’m doing is more important than the other myriad requests they get? If I wasn’t aware of my almost complete newbie-ness at this whole thing, I would feel pretty much like a jackass. Live and learn, I suppose.
I did have the amusing idea, since I hope to be doing some interviews in the midwest later this year, that I could stop by her ranch and shovel horseshit for a day in exchange for an interview : )
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